Coversing with Fun Himself

"Okay so I haven't posted in a good bit of time, but that's because I have been so busy. I have come to realize that I use words like, kinda, pretty, and sort of, a lot when I type. Two days ago was a great day after work I caught a ride from Joe, my uncle, to the house since he works down here at the shop also. So on the way there we talked a little about a few minor but drastically life changing things. we had a really good conversation. He and I talked about somethings my mom sometimes lacks to tell me, like to have fun sometimes. He really stressed that to me which really made me happy and able to related to him more than any other adult. Usually you hear the, stay focused but its very rare that you hear the, just relax and have fun. It was refreshing to hear. Of course he told me to think before I do things and not to go out and be reckless. He said that if you don't put yourself in bad situations usually nothing bad will happen and he said to use that in every aspect in my life. I completely agree. I mean there has been times where I knowingly put myself in bad situations and yes, there was a bad outcome. He also made it clear that when he was young yes, fun did exist. they had fun and people sometimes did get into fights but if you didn't like someone that was mostly the extent of it no one tried to kill anyone. He told me that he had actually witnessed a killing in which a woman shot a guy in the head point blank. Scary stuff. We then got on the topic of boy, and since my mom hardly ever talks to me about things like this due to our lack of comfort ion the topic, I felt very happy to talk to him about it. he basically said its completely normal for the opposites sexes to be attracted to each other, that I already knew. he continued in saying what you do with those feelings are either good or bad. there's nothing wrong with looking at a guy and being attracted to him but just watch were your thoughts lead you. Oh and no matter what you do don't become "that girl" he said take that in every way possible, cause no one wants to be married to 'that girl". I definitely enjoyed our conversation together... there will be more."

England! Very Happy Day! :)